Lumpy wrote:

He's not living the way you'd like to be.
Or maybe not the way you approve of.

Its not that I don't approve, its none of my business what he does, its a free country after all.  But I assume he has no health care insurance?

All I'm saying is, this is probably more a forced lifestyle than a chosen one.

He's a big boy. Likely doesn't need you
to pity him or be his mommy.

Concern - not pity.