Other than that, most often God, refuses to respond to most requests
for a spouse, and it's because of the simple fact that when God,
creates a human being, God, creates a free will.

So, what typically happens is an individual will over react, and at the
point that they aren't themselves say, through the ages of 17-23, would
get together.  But, the relationship will not work.  Whom ever had
asked, if they are fully aware, less than 1% survive because they
typically commit suicide shortly after that person leaves.